I enjoy kinky sex with lots of elements of bondage, dominance, sadism and masochism. I enjoy being dominant and spanking people. I enjoy humiliating and teasing and punishing people. But since I am what is known in the sex world as a switch, I also get sexual pleasure from being spanked and teased. Or from being controlled and humiliated. I get sexual pleasure from being powerful and in control. And the pleasure hormones really get flowing when I am being dominated. I equally love being powerless and controlled. Fuck me over or do as I fucking say. As long as there is someone being fucked, I am fine with it.
I am basically shy and private `person. When I go out I am not the life and soul of the party. I am not big and loud. I can be when the situation or work requires it. But it is not may natural state or behaviour. So most of my sex and love making happen behind closed doors in private. other than when I work as the sexiest escort Fuengirola has to offer, of course. But I have been know to enjoy a good bit of sex in public places where there is a danger of being seen and caught. If there is anything more fun than having sex and reaching a climax while pressed against a plate glass window with hundreds of occupied windows across the street from you, I do not know what it is. I love big cities for that reason among many others.
Lots of my friends and colleagues really enjoy the swinging scene. Going to a sex party alone or with their partner solely for the purpose of having sex with strangers really gives them a lot of pleasure. Some of them like to have sex with strangers in private and retreat to the bedrooms. Others enjoy having sex in public and stay in the main rooms where other people are having sex all around them. Other friends of mine like seeing their partner having sex with lots of other people and just go to sex parties to watch that. There is something very erotic about being in a place where may people are having sex at the same time.
Many of the people that I know enjoy sex clubs and swingers parties. They really get a lot of pleasure from being in a house, apartment or room where there are lots of people all having sex at the same time. Especially if that sex is loud and obviously giving everyone an extremely enjoyable time. Sicking, licking, nibbling, penetrating and being penetrated. Yes, it is all lots of fun. And some people just like doing that at the same time as lots of other people are doing exactly that same thing. Whether sex clubs and parties are your thing or not, there is definitely something erotic about hearing and seeing other people having sexy fun around you.